Five Steps on How to Get My Ex When I’m Devastated.

It is true that breakup is a devastating event which can leave you emotionally wounded. But the good news is that this breakups not irreparable events. There are things that you can learn and use to try and get your ex back. Here are five such things to help get your ex back.




First and foremost, you have to let go of all the pain and move on with life. I have to admit here, that it is some how difficult step to take but it is doable. You do not have to spend so much time thinking about the breakup because you will only succeed in hurting yourself emotionally and thus hinder your progress. You have to convinced yourself that moving on is one of the steps on how to get my ex back.




Secondly, you should take time to reflect on the possible causes of the break up. Once you are able to identify them, then you are most likely to fix them.



Thirdly, let there be a break between you and your ex. This will provide you the opportunities to reflect on the relationship and ways to make it better, when you come back together. During this period, you figure out the causes of the break up and the possible remedies to avoid future reoccurrence. Those who spend time with no contact among each other are most likely to get past the breakup and get back together.



Fourthly, you have to seek the support of good people around you, because there is an adage that says “Two good heads are better than one”, also another state that “A problem shared is a problem half solved”. This can include your parent, siblings, friends, relatives and more. These groups of individuals can help you to overcome your emotional turmoil of break up, calm your head and also mediate things between you and your ex.



Finally, a meet up is the final step in the process of getting back together with your ex. You should proceed slowly, first by emails and text messages. Always maintain a friendly and lively conversation with your ex.



So these five simple steps will offer you a greater chance of getting back together with your ex, but on the other hand be prepared to accept staying separated if things did not work out as planned, this will help to leave you at a good emotional state of mind, if the unforeseen or unwanted happen.